44 Reasons to Love Yourself
And why it will be the best damn decision you ever made.
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And why it will be the best damn decision you ever made.
After I left my abusive relationship in 2010, I spent the next decade strengthening my relationship to my Self, deepening my sense of self-worth and learning how to love myself.
In this blog I share with you 44 of the incredible gifts I have received as a result of this journey, and to drill home to you how learning to love yourself really is the answer to all your prayers.
Loving yourself is one of those gifts you didn’t know you needed until you received it. It’s one of those gifts that keeps on giving.
Whether it just brightens the lens through which you see the World around you, deepens your appreciation for the small things in life, or simply frees up some of your precious time, you will never ever regret learning to love yourself.
Loving yourself feels good, and when you feel good, you become a vibrational match for all your dreams and desires.
You allow yourself to receive in all the juicy goodness that life has to offer, and give yourself permission to choose acceptance, forgiveness, and joy, over shame, regret, and hate.
Please note, these 44 points are not the method in which I used to love myself (although some are), but more the gifts I received from the process of loving myself.
♥ I stopped making plans just so I didn’t have to be alone with myself.
♥ I said ‘no’ to things that made me feel uncomfortable, or simply because I didn’t want to.
♥ I started wearing whatever I liked, even if it was weird and wacky (actually, especially if it was weird and wacky!)
♥ I started attracting people into my life who were on the same vibe as me.
♥ I stopped wearing make-up, threw away all my bras, and stopped shaving…
♥ I ate healthier but stopped beating myself up when I had a treat.
♥ I started resting more, and without feeling guilty about it.
♥ I became more attractive on the inside AND the outside.
♥ I stopped spending so much time thinking about my appearance and now I have more time to actually have fun!
♥ I started creating a better life for myself.
♥ I had more energy.
♥ I made better decisions from a place of integrity.
♥ I found it easier to stand up for myself.
♥ I had more courage in my convictions.
♥ I respected myself, and others began to respect me more in return.
♥ I listened to myself more and honoured my own needs.
♥ The world seemed like a brighter place.
♥ I stopped seeking others approval and started seeking my own.
♥ I felt in charge of my own life.
♥ I felt a stronger connection to Source.
♥ I was perfectly happy being single.
♥ I began removing unhealthy things from my life – habits, relationships, beliefs…
♥ I bought myself flowers just because.
♥ I embraced, and even coveted, my jiggly bits.
♥ I danced to the beat of my own drum.
♥ I rescued my own damn self!
♥ I stopped making myself small.
♥ I stopped settling and went after what I truly wanted.
♥ I stopped trying to impress people and instead I sought to impress myself.
♥ I learned to forgive myself, and others.
♥ I stopped waiting until my pain was unbearable before I addressed it.
♥ I was able to see the extraordinary in the ordinary.
♥ I became more comfortable in the silence.
♥ I made friends with the darkness.
♥ I started laughing at my own jokes.
♥ I chose quality over quantity.
♥ I began to celebrate myself.
♥ I gave myself permission to be imperfect and make mistakes.
♥ I set loving intentions and gave myself to permission to keep them, tweak them, or ditch them, without feeling guilty.
♥ I developed strong boundaries.
♥ I became comfortable in my own skin – and now spend A LOT of time naked!
♥ I started respecting my body.
♥ I learned to recognise my own gifts & talents, and how I could use them to be of service.
♥ I stopped looking externally for answers and began looking internally.
To deepen the most important relationship you have – the one with yourself!
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Through a series of video workshops, downloadable PDF’s, guided meditations, visualisation journeys, self-love practices, and growth work, we will create a nurturing space for you to fall in love with yourself.
I now invite you to consider all the ways in which you might notice once you’ve started nailing this Self-Love thing. Then you can use these as milestones and marker points along the way to know if you’re on track and to keep you motivated.
Journalling Prompts:
What would it mean to you to love yourself?
How would self-love show itself in your life?
What would you be capable of by learning to love yourself?
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I would love if you shared your discoveries with us in the comments below. This can be super helpful to those who are struggling to find their own milestones and could learn from your wisdom.
p.s. If you’re ready to go deeper with your self-love journey, then check out my FREE 7-Days of Self-Love Challenge to bring self-love into your daily life in a fun and playful way #ItsASelfLoveThing
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