How to turn your Dreams into Reality
And the 4 main blocks getting in your way
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And the 4 main blocks getting in your way
In my life and business, I see many people with big dreams of wanting to live their best life.
Constantly scrolling through Instagram, staring through the screen at lives they wish they had, or at people that look ‘happier’ and more ’successful’ than them.
Yet so often they remain stuck for YEARS without making any progress. Or they try so hard yet get nowhere.
Either they are paralysed, not knowing what to do and how to move forward. Or they try everything and anything to ‘fix’ their lives, and end up with the same results as those that did nothing (but with less money and less energy!).
Through these observations, working closely with many clients with the same challenges, and my own first-hand experience, I have discerned four clear blocks that prevent people from turning their dreams into reality. Read on to discover these blocks, and some practical solutions for overcoming them.
The first block to bringing your dreams into reality is a lack of clarity. If you don’t know what you want and where you want to go, how can you begin to head in that direction?
Clarity enables you to discern the direction, the right choices, and the right steps to take to align with your Highest path, and progress toward your dreams.
Getting crystal clear on your big dream will support you in going deeper, solidifying your foundations, and getting super specific with what you actually want in life. This will propel you forward into transformation.
I found that going really deep into imagining my dream life in all its glory, and getting super specific on the intricacies and details of this dream, gave me a crystal-clear destination to begin traveling towards.
Dreams create clarity, which leads to focus and direction. Without this clarity, I was scattered, my motivation lacking and my manifestation efforts completely hopeless.
How can you manifest the life of your dreams if you don’t even know what that dream is?
Although I know deep down that clarity on its own will never bring me all my dreams, now I approach it like programming my internal SatNav – by programming in my dream destination, my energy, my focus, and my actions will know exactly where they are heading.
To support you in overcoming a lack of clarity in your life, I have created this FREE Big Dream Vision Quest to help you gain the clarity needed to start bringing your dreams into reality. Access here.
The second block on the road to creating your dream life is procrastination and lack of action. How will you ever improve your life, if you never take any steps toward it? The only way to get from A to B is to start moving!
I see too many people within the personal development world focusing solely on Law of Attraction type work. Bringing their energetics and vibrational frequencies into alignment with their dreams.
And yes, this is super helpful, but likewise, if all you ever do is energy work, with no action, how do you expect to make anything happen?
Marry the two together, however, and we now have aligned action, this is where dreams really begin to step into reality.
Try taking it one step at a time, and at each point along the way ask yourself “What will bring me one step closer to my dream?”. Additionally, when faced with a choice to make in your life, try asking yourself “Will this bring me closer to, or further away from, my dream life?”.
It’s important here to differentiate between plain old action and aligned action. Anyone can take action any time in their life, but this is when you have a danger of wasting your own time and energy.
When you take aligned action, you not only significantly increase the chances of it reaping results, but you are also more likely to enjoy it in the process.
To support you in taking action towards your dream life, I have created this simple, easy, and affordable mini course to help you turn your dreams into reality through aligned action. Access here.
The third block preventing you from turning your dreams into reality is the unwillingness to change, try new things, or do things differently.
I see so many people that want change and desire different results, but who aren’t willing to actually change or do anything differently! How can you get different results if you aren’t willing to do different things?
There is no point going through all the effort to gain crystal clear clarity on your dream life, begin to take aligned action, but refuse to actually change a few things here and there.
It’s important to remain open to new things, new ideas, new patterns, new habits, new beliefs, new behaviours, and new ways of thinking. These are the stepping stones toward that better life you are searching for. Awareness only takes you so far.
If this is the main block you are struggling with, consider booking a FREE, no obligation, Discovery Call with me today to discuss the best options for you at this time. Access here.
The fourth, and most important block, is a lack of self-love. If you don’t believe in yourself and your worthiness, you will never give yourself permission to actually go after what you want, or you will go after it half-heartedly and sabotage yourself along the way.
Overcoming this block will have a knock-on effect with the other three blocks, making it easier to gain clarity, take action and be open to change.
I meet so many people that have huge hearts, are super talented and compassionate, and want nothing more than to make the world a better place, in whatever way they can.
However, due to low self-worth, self-esteem and self-respect, they simply do not have the right foundation, tools and mindset to take the steps needed to make their dreams happen. Why would you apply for that job, ask that person out, or re-train in the field of your passion, if you think you are unworthy and undeserving of it? You just wouldn’t. Instead, you settle.
You settle for mediocre; you settle for good enough, and just watch life pass you by from this comfortable, safe, risk free, mediocre place, wondering when you’re going to get your Hogwarts letter.
Self-love is the key to unlocking all of this power, purpose and potential inside, so you truly believe you are worthy of creating a better life for yourself and those around you.
With self-love comes confidence, self-belief, empowerment and worthiness to receive the juiciness that life has to offer.
If you would like support with this final block, check out my signature programme – RADICAL Self-Love. Access here.
I now invite you to consider these four main blocks and which ones might be standing in your way of turning your dreams into reality.
Your Journaling Prompts:
What is my big dream? What do I really really want in life?
What are some small, medium, and large steps I can take towards this dream?
Where am I stuck and unwilling to change? Where can I begin to do things differently?
How can I show myself some more loving kindness?
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Once you have considered what might be blocking you, and how to move forward with this new awareness, I would love if you could share your findings with us in the comments below. This can be super supportive to those who are struggling with this and could learn from your wisdom.
p.s. If you’re ready to go deeper with your self-love journey, then check out my FREE 7-Days of Self-Love Challenge to bring self-love into your daily life in a fun and playful way #ItsASelfLoveThing
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